Why You’re a Great Friend, Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type

All of your friends probably serve different roles in your life. One might push you toward your goals, another might be your shoulder to cry on, and still another might be your partner-in-crime when it comes to practical jokes and general shenanigans. You’re probably able to list all your tightest friends’ best qualities... but do you know your own?

While you can probably see others more clearly than you can see yourself, it’s still important to remember your strengths and realize what an awesome asset you are to the people who love you most. While you’ve undoubtedly got tons of positive attributes, your Myers-Briggs personality type can actually hint at the unique way you enhance your friends’ lives. (If you don’t know your four-letter type, check out this abbreviated guide to find out more, and of course, you can also take the official full Myers-Briggs test here.)

Here’s why everyone wants you in their squad.

INFP: You comfort.

You’ve probably had a million heart-to-hearts with your friends at this point, right? That’s because there’s no one better suited for comfort than you, INFP. You are deeply empathetic, and have the ability to lend encouragement and advice without sounding harsh or critical. Your kindness and generosity of spirit helps your friends through breakups, fam worries, and much more.

ISFP: You’re uplifting.

You’re sort of the unsung hero of friends, ISFP. That’s because you “do the little things” to make sure each of your pals knows they’re heard, seen, and appreciated. You might help them pick out furniture for their dorm, or take them to a concert if they need to get out — and you always keep running tabs on everyone’s life. You’re the first to ask, “How did the date go?” or “Is your mom doing OK after her surgery?” That kind of soft sincerity is why so many people love hanging out with you.

INFJ: You’re a great listener.

Not enough people listen before they speak, and consider everyone’s feelings before they jump to conclusions — but you do, INFJ. You’re happy to help your friends with advice, but you understand that sometimes feelings and problems need to be voiced just to get them off the chest. Your ability to ask questions and listen intently, without passing judgment, means you’re a rare gem in your squad.

ENTJ: You're incredibly loyal.

Once someone has infiltrated your inner-circle, they’re in for life, which means you’re the first to step up when your friend’s in a jam. You’re leagues above the rest when it comes to executing a plan, and can always be counted upon for such strategic help. Whether you’re explaining a better way to study for math exams or picking your pal up from a sketchy party, the actual problem doesn’t matter. You’ll dive right into the mess (and get them out), no questions asked.

ENFP: You inspire.

You don’t ever want to see your friends doubt themselves on your watch. You’re so passionate about life — both yours, and others — that you’re fully aware of your friends' awesome capabilities and their long-term goals. No matter how high the pursuit, whether it’s getting accepted to their ideal college or scoring a sports scholarship, you literally won’t let them give up on their dreams. And when they achieve those dreams, you’re usually their first phone call.

ESTP: You track all the details.

You might seem too cool for school, but that’s just the surface. You’ve actually got the big, giving heart of a softie, ESTP. You like to learn the little details about a person, so you can figure out just what they need at the right moment. Maybe it’s a slice of pineapple-and-ham pizza before their big test during fourth period, or perhaps it’s a phone call when you sense your bestie’s had a rough day. Whatever it is, you pay attention and respond with small (but important) gestures of help.

ISTP: You volunteer.

You’re not a sweet-talker or one for obvious gestures, but you do want your friends to know you care in your low-key ISTP way. As such, you’re the quiet doer of your group. If someone needs help with yard work before they can go out on the weekend? You’ll help them get the job done faster. If one of your friends is starring in a play? You’ll be there for support. Your best quality is that you always show up for the people in your life.

ISFJ: You’re kind-hearted.

You like to take care of others and make them feel special, ISFJ. You’re the first to compliment your friend on their new shirt, or congratulate them on their college acceptance. If someone is out sick, you’ll make sure to send them a text to see how they’re feeling — or stop by and bring their favorite healthy snack. Your ability to make others feel good about themselves, appreciated, and noticed is so underrated (but essential!) in today’s world.

INTJ: You’re insightful.

You have a unique understanding of the universe, INTJ, and you also want others to better understand themselves. You’re a trouble-shooter with the ability to quietly listen to a friend’s problem and frame it in a new way. Maybe you point out something that they didn’t see before, or show them a new way of approaching things that might make all parties happier. The greatest gift you provide your friends is perspective. After all, new knowledge is power.

ESFP: You’re fun.

Sure, there’s a time to be serious... but certainly not all the time. You are the fun one in your crew. You always help others relax and unwind, because your natural state is: “I know what’s important in my life, and I’m not going to stress the details.” You can break up any bad mood with your outgoing energy, or transform a ho-hum Friday into a crazy adventure — even if it’s just to the mall. No matter where you go, the party follows.

ISTJ: You're reliable.

Your default mode is dependability. Your word is your word, and people never have to question whether or not they can count on you. If you say you’ll be there to help with the fundraiser, or tell someone you care, you always mean every word and back it up. While reliability might not seem like the coolest trait ever, it’s sort of the essence of friendship, ISTJ. Embrace it!

ENFJ: You’re engaged.

You’re the spark plug in any room, ENFJ, and you light others up. You have the best conversations with your pals, because you put yourself out there; your openness magically puts others at ease. In fact, you sort of make friends wherever you go, because you read people’s energy like a book and can usually figure out how to be a supportive, enthusiastic friend. You love your besties, and show it; you invest as much time as you can in each them. All that effort has led to some deep, meaningful friendships. Keep doing that vulnerability thing. It pays off!

ENTP: You’re interested.

Some people might get annoyed by an onslaught of questions, but you ask ‘em with such sincerity and charm, ENTP. You approach your friends the way you do everything else in life: With intrigue and the desire to collect data. You’re genuinely interested in your friends, and honestly feel you can learn from them. Oh, and you’ll eventually use all that info to show your friends you appreciate them, whether you thank them for sharing a study trick or check in to see how their secret novel-writing project is going.

ESFJ: You put in the effort.

You’re the best event coordinator in your crew, which means everyone quietly cheers when you volunteer to throw the party, plan the senior trip, or come up with game night ideas. Ultimately, you just want others to have a good time, which means you’re usually the one to spearhead the fun — no matter how much effort it takes on your end. That selfless nature means you’re always swarmed by people who want to spend time with you!

INTP: You’re knowledgeable.

There is no one more knowledgeable than you, INTP. You wear your “brainy” title well, but you’ve also got a quirky sense of humor and ability to recall random facts at the drop of a hat. This allows your friends to feel comfortable approaching you for help. You’re a pretty good teacher, able to patiently explain concepts that are tough for others to understand, whether it’s AP Physics or how an engine works.

ESTJ: You’re always down to chill.

Sometimes, you don’t need a shoulder to cry on. You don’t need to get feedback on a problem. You just need someone who will hang at a moment’s notice — and that person is you, ESTJ. Although you’re all business at work and school, your secret side is that you’re always down for to help someone take their mind off the daily grind. Whether it’s kayaking on the lake or just grabbing dinner with a friend who needs company, you’re in.

 Source : http://www.teenvogue.com/story/what-kind-of-friend-you-are-myers-briggs-personality-type